Top-Rated Divorce Mediator in Connecticut

The time it takes to get a divorce can vary depending on factors such as the case's complexity and whether disputes need to be resolved. In general, a mediated divorce can take as little as a few months.

You’ll want to tell your spouse, of course, but it may be helpful to first gain an understanding of the mediation processes so that when you refer to a peaceful divorce, you can share something of what you’ve learned. 

If communication problems keep you from talking candidly, consider using a mental health professional to help.  Bear in mind that your spouse may need time to understand and accept your decision before being ready to take in much information or embark on a divorce process. Allowing that time lays a good foundation for mediation or collaboration.

In Connecticut mediation, service is typically waived, meaning neither party will be served with court papers.

As a mediator and co-parenting coach, I am trained to help divorcing couples recognize and create parenting plans that serve the children's best interests. We keep the children front of mind so their needs are fully explored and well represented. I also help parents build healthy communication and develop and implement parenting plans that can be put into place peacefully and effectively. 

Divorcing couples rarely get along, but that does not mean litigation is your only (or best) option. You can end your marriage without litigation if you have the same goal in mind: divorcing while minimizing the emotional and financial impact on your family and staying out of the courtroom. I am trained to help you focus on resolving the issues and not get sidetracked by the past. 

The best time to meet with Shell is before you separate.  I can help you create interim plans that fit your family and budget and address the challenges of transitioning out of your marriage.  

Even if you have already separated or begun the litigation process you can still choose to pursue Mediation. 

My goal is to keep the conversation balanced and give each person a voice.  I do this by giving each person uninterrupted time to speak, helping people work through strong emotions, and creating space for creative, thoughtful problem-solving. No case is too complicated for mediation. 

Absolutely not; my mediation services support all individuals and all parents navigating divorce, regardless of gender.  

My role is to provide a neutral, judgment‑free space where every client can gain clarity, confidence, and a clear path forward.

If you’re navigating divorce or co‑parenting, you’re welcome here.