💚Personal Divorce Guide 💚
You don't have to face your divorce alone.
Are you considering a divorce and concerned about your financial situation?
Then start here. BEFORE you hire an attorney, mediator, or start negotiating the house, cars, or retirement savings with your spouse.
Why? Through patient education, budget support, and scenario planning, I will help you transition from a state of fear to financial confidence, with the ultimate goal of starting the divorce process with a clear plan for moving forward.
However, that's not all. As your Personal Divorce Guide, I’ll walk with you through every decision, holding your hand throughout the divorce journey, and helping you move forward with strength and certainty.
This is a secure, private, and judgment-free space.
I genuinely care about your comfort, and it's important to me that you feel safe and understood. There’s no judgment here.
I want you to know that your financial situation does not reflect who you are as a person, and my goal is to support you as a caring partner on this journey.
Together, we can work on getting your finances organized and ready for the path ahead.
Together, we’ll navigate every layer of your divorce.
We'll start with understanding your vision for the next chapter of your life.
We’ll devise tailored settlement options that align with your unique needs and aspirations for the future, create a customized negotiation strategy, and clarify the impacts and benefits of your choices along the way.
You’ll walk away prepared and organized, equipped with the knowledge and tools necessary for peace of mind in your next chapter!
Don’t leave your future to chance—let's take this journey together and pave the way for a brighter tomorrow!
This is for you if...
You are facing or in the midst of divorce, and you are concerned about making the right decisions
With Shell's help, you will...
▫️ Know exactly what financial information to gather and how to organize it—so your documents are ready for your attorney or mediator, and your financial affidavit is presented clearly and professionally.
▫️ Create a tailored budget for your next chapter—so you can assess affordability, define your needs, and understand what it will take to live the life you're envisioning.
▫️ Evaluate your financial picture with confidence—so you can understand your options and determine what a truly fair settlement looks like for you.
▫️ Gain clarity on dividing the marital home, retirement funds, and debts—so you can make informed choices and design the best settlement strategy for yourself and your family.
▫️Learn to communicate and negotiate effectively - ensuring you come out stronger on the other side.
▫️ Identify a plan for a secure, stable future—so you leave this chapter not just with resolution, but with a real roadmap for the life you deserve.
How did you even get here?
When you said "I do," you never imagined that you'd find yourself in this situation
As you consider this new chapter in your life, it's natural to feel a whirlwind of emotions and concerns. You might be wondering,
"Will I be okay financially?" or
"Can I manage to keep our family home?"
The well-being of your kids weighs heavily on your mind, too. And let's not forget the biggest question of all: "How do I even begin this journey?"
It can feel overwhelming, but you're not alone in facing these uncertainties.
Jennifer was there too! When Jennifer and I first connected, she was contemplating divorce, her mind spinning with thoughts that kept her up at night. Seeking clarity and a way to navigate this difficult path, she was determined to face divorce without overwhelming uncertainty. That's when she found me.
Her wish was to achieve an amicable divorce, though she felt unsure if her husband would share that goal once she revealed her intentions. Jennifer was building a decent career in a high-income area where home prices soared. With two young children, aged eight and five, she was committed to ensuring their lives remained as unaffected as possible throughout this transition.
When we began our journey together, we meticulously gathered her financial information using a comprehensive checklist and thoroughly analyzed her situation. We explored the possibilities of her keeping the home, carefully strategizing how to separate the bank account and retirement funds, ultimately envisioning the best settlement option for Jennifer, which included understanding Child support and alimony. We clarified her priorities, allowing her to recognize what she truly needed and deserved.
Upon obtaining a clear and comprehensive understanding of her financial situation, we proceeded to develop a strategic approach for her to communicate effectively with her husband. We also dove into the various methods of divorce, assessing which option would best serve her interests, and identifying strategies to minimize the impact on their children during this transition.
When Jennifer embarked on her divorce journey, I was there every step of the way, providing unwavering support and acting as a collaborative thought partner. Together, we focused on fairness and sharpened our insights into sound financial decisions. We carefully crafted compelling talking points for negotiations and anticipated her husband’s responses, allowing us to develop robust strategies for effective negotiation.
This transformative experience empowered Jennifer to advocate for what she and her children genuinely deserved. As a result, she emerged from her divorce with a fair settlement and a well-structured budget for her new chapter.
I often say this: Divorce doesn't have to suck, and you shouldn't feel like you're getting screwed. With the proper preparation and a clear understanding of what's ahead, you can navigate this journey smoothly and emerge victorious.
Imagine how this support can help you!
Unlocking doors to a deeper understanding of your finances and money mindset that helps pave the way for better decisions and positive money management.
Stepping over the threshold that empowers you to navigate the divorce process confidently, helping you to identify and secure what truly matters most to you and your future.
Building unshakable confidence as you utilize tools to master effective communication and negotiation strategies.
Walking down a path to ensure a fair agreement and to tackle any counter-offers that may come your way.
And best of all, designing a brighter future with strength and a strategy
Bottom line: Don’t walk through the door of divorce alone. Let’s make sure you’re financially prepared before you take that step.